40个经典短语，让你领悟更多……

1、一个人炫耀什么，说明内心缺少什么。

2、一个人越在意的地方，就是最令他自卑的地方。

3、人都有以第一印象定好坏的习惯，认为一个人好时，就会爱屋及乌，认为一个人不好时，就会全盘否认。

4、人越是得意的事情，越爱隐藏，越是痛苦的事情越爱小题大作。

5、这个世界既不是有钱人的世界，也不是有权人的世界，它是有心人的世界。

6、婚姻的杀手有时不是外遇，而是时间。

7、当你再也没有什么可以失去的时候，就是你开始得到的时候。

8、学习要加，骄傲要减，机会要乘，懒惰要除。

9、童年的无知可爱，少年的无知可笑；青年的无知可怜；中年的无知可叹，老年的无知可悲。

10、人允许一个陌生人的发迹，却不能容忍一个身边人的晋升。因为同一层次的人之间存在着对比、利益的冲突，而与 陌生人不存在这方面的问题。

11、一个女人喜欢一个男人时，她希望听到谎言；当一个女人厌恶一个男人时，她希望听到真理。

12、现代的婚姻是情感的产物，更是竞争的结晶。

13、敌人变成战友多半是为了生存，战友变成敌人多半是为了金钱。

14、世界上1%的人是吃小亏而占大便宜，而99%的人是占小便宜吃大亏。大多数成功人士都源于那1%。

15、一个人幸运的前提，其实是他有能力改变自己。

16、人的成长要接受四个方面的教育：父母、老师、书籍，社会。有趣的是，后者似乎总是与前面三种背道而驰。

17、经营自己的长处，能使你人生增值；经营你的短处，能使你人生贬值。

18、生命犹如一片绿叶，随着时间的流逝，慢慢变的枯黄，但他的叶脉还是那么清晰可见。

19、把事情变复杂很简单，把事情变简单很复杂。

20、如果是棵小草，即使在最好的企业里，你也长不成大树。果真如此，不如历经风雨，把自己培养成名贵花卉。

21、“危机”两个字，一个意味着危险，另外一个意味着机会，不要放弃任何一次努力。

22、怕爹是孝顺，怕老婆是爱情。

23、没有不合格的学生，只有不合格的家长。

24、地球是运动的，一个人不会永远处在倒霉的位置。

25、有一种人只做两件事：你成功了，他妒嫉你；你失败了，他笑话你。

26、笨男人+笨女人=结婚； 笨男人+聪明女人=离婚； 聪明男人+笨女人=婚外情； 聪明男人+聪明女人=浪漫爱情。

27、人有两只眼睛，全是平行的，所以应当平等看人；人的两只耳朵是分在两边的，所以不可偏听一面之词；人虽只有 一颗心，然而有左右两个心房，所以做事不但要为自己想，也要为别人想。2

8、“总”要为爱人着想，“经”得起爱人唠叨，“理”应对爱人谦让，男人应当“总经理”。

29、失言就是一不小心说了实话。

30、真诚并不意味着要指责别人的缺点，但意味着一定不恭维别人的缺点。

31、人的本性就是贪婪，但没有贪婪社会就不会进步。

32、恋爱是想一个人的心，婚姻是拴一个人的心，爱情是吞一个人的心。

33、最好的进攻就是进攻自己。

34、人生的意义不在于拿一手好牌，而在于打好一手坏牌。

35、竞争，其实就是一种友谊，在对手的帮助下提高你的聪明度，害怕竞争的人已经输给了对手。

36、钱可以帮穷人解决问题，却帮富人制造问题。

37、世界上只有想不通的人，没有走不通的路。

38、真正的财富是一种思维方式，而不是一个月收入数字。

39、一个人想平庸，阻拦者很少；一个人想出众，阻拦者很多。不少平庸者与周围人关系融洽，不少出众者与周围人关 系紧张。

40、三流的化妆是脸上的化妆；二流的化妆是精神的化妆；一流的化妆是生命的化妆。

很有意思~ 看完记得转到自己涂污墙里面，经常看反复领悟吧……

( Quoted from anonymous's notes in facebook )

空虚

或许是空虚，最近爱上自己一个人晚上在街上走

尤其是午夜，很凉，心比较平静

走着跟你传简讯，整个人轻松下下

暂时忘了脑袋里塞满的东西

有时就走很久，想很多很多东西

很多却毫无头绪的东西，在想什么都不懂

就是很烦，烦不完那种

搞到自己几个星期整天脸苦苦

搞到喜欢一个人

一个人读书

一个人散步

一个人看戏，做自己的东西

一个人独来独往，不需顾虑太多

可是却又怕寂寞，很恐怖

有时想到你的冷漠，会怕，自然就掉眼泪

害怕你有一天真的累了

累了，放弃，离开那种

常常会无端端哭起来

多下看见你就开心过来

怀疑自己患上轻微犹豫症

上网翻看的症状，多少都符合

尝试告诉自己只是压力过头，想不通罢了

好像不见效

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*kinda fulfill them all............

speechless

lotsa things i wanna express. but none of it come out. just dunno how to let out my frustration, my anger, my heartache. now that i know there are lotsa backstabbing going on. and that it's true that the closest to you is the most dangerous one. would NEVER trust anyone from now on...

i am damn tired and sleepy now but just couldn't bring myself to sleep beside her. it really sucks. god knows how glad i am to make the decision.

我就是那么的难搞

我

:: 很野蛮

:: 很霸道

:: 很爱管

:: 很小气

:: 很粘人

:: 很贪吃

:: 很幼稚

:: 很依赖

:: 脾气超坏

:: 很惹人厌

:: 很爱耍脾气

:: 很喜欢抱抱

:: 很习惯被宠

:: 忌妒心超重

:: 很死缠烂打

:: 爱无理取闹

:: 爱无中生有

:: 很容易不耐烦

:: 需要迁就又要有主见的男友

:: 要一个对我死缠烂打的男友

:: 习惯你对我做的事，以后最好不要改变

:: 有很多改不了的习惯，最好继续下去

我就是那么难搞~

怎样？

desperate

don't even know what's the point i am still holding on...

yet don't even know why i can't say it out and let it go...

so desperate to know all the things been hidden from me before could make up the mind.

truth or not to be

Sometimes, certain truth are really not meant to be known. Especially when you aren't ready for it, or never expecting it. And even you are aware of it, you ain't gonna believe it at that moment. To believe it or not to, outcome should be based on own judgement. Now that the trust are giving way to the truth and doubts, what else could we think of? At most time, it's not the matter of the outcome, but merely lies within the process, the time undertaken to went through it. Why is it that when it is so obvious all the time, we tend to loss sight of it more easily? Why are people blind-folding themselves? Why are people tend to keep things to themselves when they knew the outside should know about it? And why is it I gotta be the last to know it, even worst, when everyone's knew about it. Perhaps we could defend it by saying that the truth are not the truth after all. And basically, part of me still trust my own instinct, my own experience, all those I've been through. Every single thing that happens has got it's pros and cons, causes and reasons. I'm not to judge anyone nor conclude anything. But the outsides may not things better than me. I knew him and I know him. It's really unfair that practically everyone is sentencing a person to dungeon without valid prove. Sometimes what's seen on the surface are just surface. Things are not at all like what they assume. No one knows the hard times some people went through. Do they? And do they even care?? One thing for sure, those people never strive for living, yet, and are still under the parents' armpit. All the while they've been clucking real damn loud and stretching out blardy arms to get something. Spoiled and pampered. In this case, some people just never got the chance nor opportunity to do so.

It's aching me from deep inside that practically all are having the same view and same judgement. It's aching me even deeper that I knew NOTHING at all. I wonder how much more are yet to be revealed. Wanted so badly to know more. Anything. Why people just have to be so fake, all, especially U. Of all the advice u given to me, I wonder if any of them are true at all. No more trust for U. That's my word. And no matter how true are all these, even how bad a person in ones eye, those 3 years aren't just a TALE. It's from one's heart. How am i supposed to react to this? Not that I can just approach someone right in front of the nose and demand for explanation. Why things keep bugging me? It's just not fair that every time I am the one who gotta go through all these. Brings down my mood and brings up all the emo stuff. I'm losing a lot already, if these keep goes on, I'm gonna loss all, my friends. The lousy treatment I've been giving them, ones hate could turn to exaggerate. And the lack of sleep and meals skipping made it even worst.

Everything is going nowhere after all.

friends no friends

Had been up and down recently, just dunno what exactly causes it.

Walk alone, eat alone and emo alone.

I'm blues, coz having never ending frustration, from books to people.

I'm white, coz the mind is blank whenever I tried to think rationally.

I'm grey, coz always in the downward slope of the mood graph.

I'm invisible, coz no one ever sees what's within and beyond me.

Someone said something about me of being self-centered and thinks of having bf is as though having the whole world. The whole world here doesn't include friends and other surroundings. Am I? But I seriously still needed them around for me. So how are friends being defined?

According to google search results, a friend is

1. a person whom one knows, likes and trusts

2. a person attached to another by feelings of affection

3. a person who supports, sympathizes with X

4. a person who gives assistance; patron; supporter X

Basically, a friend should be there for you no matter in good or in blues, and the way round. I was there when she needed support, when she needed some lending ears, when she just needed someone to kepochi together, and when she needed financial assist. But were she there when I am in my greys? Did they ever asked? No. I could use some concern when they are willingly to offer some. No harm. I could use a lending shoulder if they are willingly to lent one. No harm. But does anyone cares? Really doubting it 101%. Honestly, I'm not independent. I'm always depending on someone. Bf or non-bf. Can't stand on own's 2 feet. But think back and think deep, I should really be on my own. Friends or no friends, they won't gonna be there for you forever. This is reality, as much as u can't accept it, better be. Coz when u give out 99%, u aren't gonna get back 45% of it. This is life, and this is what I've learned. It's true that when they said u don't go expect what u will gain in return of your favor. So, this leave with only one option. Don't ever care for others at the max point, cos in the end, u will gain nothing. Fair enough.

Maybe this explains why I LOVE being alone nowadays. Keep everything to myself. Don't go kepochi so much. Wanna have time for myself, can't afford to 'eng siu' others when u were left with less than 6 hours a day for own leisure. Like me or not, be it. I've had enough, and i deserve better, rather than being hook on the nose and so whatever u all like.

Call me a barbarian. Call me a nuisance. Call me whatever you want.

I ain't a bitch, so don't force me to be one.